The best way you can pamper yourself is to get a massage. If you’re on a budget you can find a school where you can get a massage from one of the students for fairly cheap.
Another way to de-stress is to soak in a nice, warm bath. Spalook.com has Kneipp Herbal Bath Salts in Eucalyptus that you can put in your bath to get rid of stress and fatigue. Oh, I can just feel the goodness right now!
If you live here in San Diego and want to really, really pamper yourself, you may want to check out this list of the best La Jolla spas. I would love to visit the Gaia Day Spa where they use pure natural ingredients. Real apricot on your face - how divine!